You Are Not Broken.

I teach women about sex.

I am a urologist. A woman. A wife. I have advanced training in pelvic medicine and surgery.

Women cry in my office every week. Their confidence is broken. They don’t desire intimacy. Or they desire better intimacy.

No tools learned in medical school prepared me for the wave of women that are hungry for help and education. So I pursued even more education. Sexual health. Intimacy. The science of desire and female sexual response. Coaching and mind work. I am self-taught.

Now it is my job to teach others.  Because I can’t teach women one-on-one in my clinic and expect to touch a drop in the ocean of this need.

Please join me.

Because You Are Not Broken.

The verdict is in: people are loving it!  

My book You Are Not Broken - Stop "Should-ing" All Over Your Sex Life is now available on Amazon! 

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The You Are Not Broken Podcast

Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term bond, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, explore, and normalize our lives. 




A one-of-a-kind membership program for adults who are finally ready to take back their bodies, intimacy, confidence and life open to:

  • All genders and ages (18+)
  • Anyone who is looking to improve their relationships and sex life, either individually, or in a partnership.
  • Anyone who is looking for the ultimate up-level in personal growth.



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I do most of my live interaction over on Instagram Live these days.

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Desire Types

There are two desire types.  Spontaneous and reactive/responsive.  Spontaneous is what we think we should have. Even when we worked all day, the dog is sick and a big work project is looming later this week.  BUT...reactive desire is what is common, normal and what the majority of women in long term relationships have as we age.  See, are you starting to realize that you are not broken?

Limiting Beliefs

I am broken.

I shouldn't enjoy sex.

I can't get any better at sex.

Sex should be easy. I

have lost my desire.

It is my partner's job to give me pleasure.

All of these statements are just beliefs. Not facts. Limiting beliefs that keep you from living your best love life. Come get coached. Change your brain. Changing your thoughts can change your life! I'll show you how!

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About Me

I am a physician. A urologist actually.  Did you know that only ten percent of urologists are female? Our jobs make us the experts of the pelvis. Up until now urology has only included the male sexual experience. Well, who are most men with? That's right, the ladies.

Who is taking care of our sex education? Did this get left to our elementary school teachers, Hollywood and gasp, religion and parents? Where do you go to get accurate knowledge?  

My mission is to empower women to live their best love lives.

Combining the power of mind, body and relationships, I joyously break down the societal barriers that are keeping us from awakening into our best intimate experience.

Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term bond, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT Broken.

With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about ourselves, to help us play, explore, and normalize our lives.

Years of helping care for women in the clinic has shown me that we, as a society, are not doing enough to teach women about their mind, body and relationships. So in my own little, powerful way, I have created a course to do just that.

I am a mom, a wife, a nerd, a surgeon. Basically the friendly expert you never had, to teach you —You Are Not Broken.

FINALLY stop "should-ing" all over your sex life!


Download a FREE preview of Kelly's new book, You Are Not Broken.